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The end of something is better than its beginning. It is better to be patient than arrogant. Ecclesiastes 7:8 (The Bible) When it first began...you had the buttterflies . The nervous excitement from the good news you received or the new chapter you had begun. You simply couldn't suppress the joy and excitement you felt and you wanted the feeling to last forever. But as time went on, the fire in your heart begun to grow cold; you lost the joy, passion and the zeal to keep it going. We have all been there...experienced the great  feeling of a fresh start to something new. You begin a new job, a new relationship, a new friendship, get a new idea, a new school or college, you are newly wed. They call it the honeymoon phase and it's the time when everything feels good and just perfect. But over time, life gets difficult, obstacles come our way and takes away the joy and excitement we once felt. We  have all experienced it. As time goes on, the job is lost, the relationship ends...

HDS is a disease many of us suffer from. Whether we are aware of it or not. Human Dependency Syndrome attacks the best of us; celebrities, communities, nations and continents are under attack from this dreadful disease. I'm not sure if this term formally exists (because I thought it out) but I feel it working in my life and it's doing exactly what it means to do; it makes me dependent on the responses of others in big and small decisions or actions for my life. When making little decisions like, 'should I get up and dance to this song because I love it, leads you onto 'but no one is dancing and I need someone to dance with me', then ... Or I am so sick and tired of this routine and need a relaxing holiday but 'who will come with me' is your next line of thought then ... I want to start my own business but 'I can't do it on my own' ... Comes to mind Does this sound familiar to you? That's human dependency syndrome. I define it as wantin...